Showing posts with label battle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label battle. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Smart, tricks

Last week:

Harith and his parents went to UMMC for his regular injections and check ups. I guess they had discussions about his progress and all sorts.

When they came home, I was told Professor Paul Tay (who had delivered him) commented the followings:
* Harith is supposed to start eating on his own.
* Harith is supposed to hold his milk bottle himself.
* Harith this, Harith that...

Okay, so we negotiated with him,

"If you don't want to hold the bottle yourself, you won't get this milk" as taught by Prof.

Hafiz tried in the morning. I tried in the afternoon.

Episode One:
When Hafiz tried, he let off the bottle, crying, sulking for a few minutes and had to be pacified, which took quite some time to be comforted. So, he won. Uncle Hafiz lost the first battle.

In the afternoon, I tried. Guess how he reacted? He gave similar little cry , putting away his hands, stiffen them and let off the bottle from his mouth. A few minutes later, he laughed and lied down on his tummy. Believe it or not? AND Like it or not, I had to put the milk bottle into his mouth and he finished the whole bottle lying tummy down without holding the bottle.

Okay, he won!

I thought he had forgotten the "deal"... so, this afternoon, he asked for the milk. When I was ready to feed him, he was already on his tummy. with hands stiff and putting by his sides. Hahahahaha, smart Harith. Okay, he won.

He knew IT! Had he hold the bottle, we would not be with him, by his side... clever little Amir Harith.






The look of victory on his face... "Yay! I triumphed!" said Harith

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

THE BATTLE THAT SEEMED NEVER WAS


25.7.08
Lara, He won? BUT, Neither did you loose



a flower for you to sooth your heart and soul


Messages of congratulations kept coming in
Sms were busy with traffics
News spread fast among those who cared
The former judge was congratulating you
The religious teacher was also wishing the same
For taking and having such a noble attitude

Yes, he had won in the court of the world
With manipulations and attitudes from all sectors
Justice delayed was justice denied
But your winning takes you to the court of Allah

Despite losing after an eight year old battle
The battle that seemed never was
With a staggeringly enormous bill by our standards
You are to remain in your own self, a winner

Your patience, perseverance, inner strength
And taking the long strides with faith in Allah
Pays at last!
There is a Blessing in Disguise, do not worry

Allah takes care of everything in your life
He knows what to give and what to take away

And when He should give you glory

Your strong faith and patience are the glory
In His eyes
May not be so in humans’ eyes

But that does not matter

It’s Allah’s care, blessings and love that matters
Let the denial in justice with such manipulations
Cleanse all your sins in this world! Amiin.

Meanwhile Lara, just remain calm and look through
Not with your eyes but with your faith in Allah
Things happened for some reasons
The mysterious reasons that only Allah knows


Never fret, never regretted and never stumbled
Over inhuman behaves and characters
They have not chosen the path that you did
May Allah Bless you with a better heart and life!
Aaaaamiiiiin.